What to ask a Surrogacy Agency BEFORE SIGNING. (For Surrogates)

Becoming a surrogate is a deeply rewarding journey, but it's crucial to partner with the right agency to ensure a smooth and fulfilling experience. As you embark on this noble path, it's essential to ask the right questions when evaluating potential agencies. To help you remember these key topics, let's use the acronym "CARE" – Compensation, Audience, Reputation, and Experience.

Compensation: Ensuring Fair Treatment

Before committing to an agency, it's vital to understand their compensation structure thoroughly. Ask about the base compensation for surrogates and inquire about any additional payments or benefits. Make sure to clarify expenses that are covered, such as medical, legal, and travel costs. A reputable agency will provide transparent information about compensation and ensure that you receive fair and competitive compensation for your invaluable contribution.

Audience: Matching Your Values

Every agency tends to work with a specific population of intended parents, whether it's heterosexual couples, same-sex couples, or single individuals. Take the time to discuss with the agency the demographics of the intended parents they typically represent. It's essential to find an agency whose values align with your own and whose intended parent population you feel comfortable supporting throughout the surrogacy journey. Additionally, the geography of the Intended Parents may be a significant piece of what you are looking for. Ask the agency where the majority of their Parents reside. If you are looking for domestic parents and that agency primarily works with Asian parents, it will not be a good fit.

Reputation: Trusting in Experience

The experience and reputation of an agency are paramount when selecting a partner for your surrogacy journey. Inquire about how long the agency has been in business and request references from past surrogates. Choose an agency with a solid reputation for professionalism, integrity, and compassionate support.

Experience: Clinics and Collaborations

Another crucial aspect to consider is the agency's relationships with fertility clinics. Ask which clinics the agency tends to work with and inquire about their experience collaborating with these medical facilities. A reputable agency will have established partnerships with respected clinics known for their expertise in reproductive medicine. Understanding the agency's connections with clinics can give you confidence in the quality of medical care you'll receive throughout the surrogacy process.

As you embark on your journey as a surrogate, remember to CARE – consider Compensation, Audience, Reputation, and Experience when evaluating potential agencies. By asking the right questions and choosing a trustworthy and experienced partner, you can embark on your surrogacy journey with confidence and peace of mind.

Your decision to become a surrogate is a selfless and compassionate act, and selecting the right agency is the first step toward making a positive difference in the lives of intended parents. Embrace this journey with openness and trust, knowing that you have the power to bring joy and fulfillment to others while creating a beautiful legacy of love and generosity.

Brooke Kimbrough